L'esprit Wolf

Upon reaching adulthood, I will depart from my birth pack to form my own. My desire to mate or the resources available mostly dictated my moves to ensure the survival of the pack. Yet it is a healthy move. It allows me to discover myself and new ways of being and living through my encounters.

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To discover yourself, you must eventually leave your birth pack. It doesn’t mean that you need to cut all connection to your birth pack unless you want to. What it means is that it is time to own the responsibility of your life, explore yourself, own your point of view, challenge it with other truths, and broaden your horizon.

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That move allows you to gently form a pack that resonates with your values, dreams, and energetic frequency. You will soon realise you are never truly alone, even if some people aren’t meant to remain in your life forever.

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The questions you could play with are:

• Are the surrounding people nurturing me or pulling me down?
• Why am I unable to transition to new relationships or employment? Loyalty? Fear? Something else?
• Do I fear losing the people I love if I were to be myself or express my opinions?
• Am I focusing on my past and family wound to avoid being responsible for my joy (or lack thereof)?

For a long time, people perceived me as a threat, and many children’s stories portrayed me as the villain to scare children. In truth, while I do occasionally eat cattle and other livestock, I rarely taste human flesh. Yet, that reputation is sticking to my tail.

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People say I’m dangerous to herds. However, I don’t understand herds, fences, or property, and I don’t fancy much proximity to humans. Therefore, when I steal a sheep, it means that prey in the forest were lacking and that I am ensuring my survival. I don’t hunt and kill you when you are chasing on my territory, yet, by making me the villan, some humans do when I hunt on theirs.

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What people say about me always depends on their point of view and sometimes on their agenda. Likewise, what others are saying about you does not reflect who you are, but the projection they make about you. Let go of other’s judgment or words about you, only you know the truth about who you are and what is in your heart.

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You are not here to hurt for what they said about you, nor to please them for what they could say. You are here to own who you are.

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So, what are you stopping yourself from saying or doing? Where are you self-censoring yourself by fear of judgment? What are you not expressing by fear of rejection or abandonment?