L'esprit Dragonfly

The males of my species don’t understand the meaning of «no» to such an extent that many fellow females fake being dead to protect themselves from harassment and assaults.

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While faking death might serve you to survive life-threatening situations, it won’t help you to feel safe and free in the long run.

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It is time to use your voice to express what does not feel right, unfair or trespass on your moral, emotional or physical boundaries. It is time to stand up for your right to exist, be respected, and be safe. 

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Rather than being passive and enduring unpleasant situations, it is time for you to stand up.

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In some cases, this might imply leaving a workplace, a country, or a relationship to find the place and people that make you feel safe and free to be yourself. However, your sense of freedom and safety will often be an inner construction. 

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Rebuilding self-value, self-trust, and self-recognition is essential for unleashing the courage to create the change you need.

Believe it or not, I have been using solar power long before humans thought about solar panels. I need the sun to warm my muscles and wings to fly properly without exhausting myself.

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Some may say that I am guided by the sun, and in some ways, this is true, as I am guided by the love and warmth emanating from its light.

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But let me share a secret with you: There are multiple suns in your life. Love and warmth can emanate from the elements, the cosmos, nature, animals, and humans.

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It is time to identify the suns of your life. Do not mistake them for codependencies! Your suns are meant to recharge and nurture you. They can be a walk in the park, or a good moment shared with friends or kids. They can be a dip in the sea or crafting something.

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My presence here reminds you that you will lose yourself if you do not take care of your energy and recharge your batteries. You may be too focused on work or your career, spend too much time in front of your screen, or spend all your time caring for someone else. As a result, your health, sleep or stress level is stretched.

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Taking the time to recharge will allow you to stay healthy in the long run, gain better inspiration, find solutions more smoothly, and have some fun along the way.

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It is time to identify the suns of your life and spend more time in their company or practising them.